Saturday, April 05, 2014

Intimacy Has No Boundaries

     It was a cool Saturday autumn night when some friends in their early twenties gathered around a bonfire to celebrate the end to a great summer. Dylan had been noticing Katie for some time but had not gained the courage to ask her out. He watched from afar basking in her smile and listening to her laughter as if it was the sweetest song he had ever heard. Without these convenient get togethers he would lose any opportunity to see her again if he did not act tonight. After a couple drinks for courage he spotted his moment. There she was, sitting alone staring into the roaring fire. He approached and began a casual conversation. What Dylan didn't realize was Katie had noticed him long before and been hoping he would notice her too. Before the night was over a date had been set. This was the beginning of a true love story between Dylan and Katie.

     Katie continued her studies at college working toward a career in elementary education. Dylan was a military man working his way up the ranks. After two years of courtship Dylan asked Katie to be his wife. The two were married and began planning their family. Both wished to have several children and raise them in their small town while they grew old together. After the second child, Dylan was deployed overseas. A hardship many military families face but accepted. Three months in to his deployment Katie received news that Dylan was coming home early. This should have been joyous news for the young family. It was not. While Dylan was on a routine mission his unit took fire. A couple soldiers were lost and Dylan was a surviving casualty. Only after he was stabilized and able to be transported closer to home was Katie aware of the severity of her husband’s injuries.

     Dylan set eyes upon his wife for the first time in months from a wheelchair. He teared up and uttered the words “I’m sorry, baby”. Katie with tears in her eyes comforted her husband letting him know this was not his fault but an unfortunate circumstance that they would overcome together. The doctors spoke with the two after running more tests about the damage that had been done. The ending result would be that Dylan was paralyzed from the waist down. No rehabilitation or cure would be able to fix the damaged spine. There would need to be long care treatment and compensation for the loss of the use of Dylan’s legs and other body parts.

     After the shock wore off and Dylan was back home with his wife and children, the couple tried to resume as normal of a life as possible. Dylan was able to find ways to get around and to play with his children. Finally he could care for himself without depending upon anyone. There was just one thing he could not compensate for and knew was a great sacrifice his loving wife had undertaken without mentioning a word. He was not able to make love to her and there was nothing he could do to change that.

     A year had gone by and the two were lying in bed. Dylan turned to his young beautiful wife and asked her if she wanted to be free. He said he understood he was no longer the man she married and he was not able to give her all that she needed. Katie turned to her husband and told him that he clearly was the man that she married and would never want anyone else. Her husband filled with guilt asked her to seek other companionship to fulfill her sexual needs so she would not be missing out on anything. He did not want her to suffer for his career and life choices. Katie understood her husband and that he would always make sacrifices for his family as he did for his country.

     She went to the closet and pulled out a box. Dylan had done everything to recover and compensate for what had been taken from them. Katie however took it upon herself to find a way to compensate for what may have appeared to be lacking intimately. She knew this topic would be a great strain upon her husband. Where they could not traditionally make love to each other anymore Katie did her research. She prepared for when her husband would be ready for the alternative.

     In the box was a few basic sex toys. A bulletvibrator, a vibrating dildo, a hands-free clitoral strap-on and some lubricant to start. Apprehensive her husband asked what they would do with such things together.
Clitoral Strap-on
Clitoral Strap-on

Since they both had not been previously exposed to adult novelties Katie shared what she had researched. She explained how she felt it would be worth a try to be intimate with the help these toys not other people. She told him the bullet was to explore and excite her. She explained the dildo was to pretend it was him inside her like before and he could have his way with her. The clitoral strap-on he was a bit confused about at first but she let him know it would be her favorite. Instead of explaining she showed him the intent. She put the device on over her clitoris. Then she gave her husband the controls. She then climbed upon him and kissed him. She did not need him inside of her to be intimate. He had the control and he gave her the orgasm of a lifetime. They shared an experience they did not with anyone else. Together they overcame a boundary that could have torn them apart. Their intimate bond had never been so great. They continued to use toys and grow old together, never allowing life challenges to end their love story but instead define it.